Men look for women from disadvantaged nations either themselves outpriced from the local dating scene because they are awkward, or found. Most likely as they are stuck aided by the regrettable combination of

1) a desire that is infantile marry a female whom “looks just like a porn star”,

2) human body of the walrus and

3) the ways of a mad primate.

It really is either insecurity or a want to grab significantly more than he could in an exchange that is free of equals. In either case, you will get a more partner that is desirable regards to specific characteristics if her social value is irrevocably harmed by the accident of delivery.

Many studies of this MOB phenomenon takes people’s words for a gospel regarding rationalizing their behavior – but those terms nevertheless say a lot more than they designed to:

Us ladies “were too thinking about the thing I ended up being well worth economically. With women’s liberation in america, they were had by me calling me personally, visiting the house. Before, the man called the lady as he desired to date her; the girl had not been the initiator. Now could be therefore distinctive from the thing I was raised with, thus I thought that the thing that is best to accomplish was to fulfill somebody that can’t simply arrive at the house.”

— stated a previous spouse (age 65) of a MOB (Minervini – McAndrew 2005, pdf to review)

A differnt one complains about competition in women (hating competition is a basic authoritarian trait) just as if it will be a poor thing to possess a spouse of every value not in the house. Continue reading →