It appears that that I hear from her as I begin to adjust having almost no relationship. She often wishes one thing from me personally (and I also have always been maybe not speaing frankly about psychological help) but “things. ” We have stopped reinforcing that behavior by hearing her desires and requirements and sympathizing together with her (about her stolen bicycle, insufficient tent required for future trip etc. ) maybe perhaps maybe not providing to get whatever she frequently is requesting in a roundabout or way that is manipulative. Continue reading →